Reflections

Dr. Benjamin “Buz” Graham Jr., son of famed investor Benjamin Graham, left us on March 12, 2025 at age 79. A devoted physician, civil rights worker, and cancer survivor, my Uncle Buz was known for his compassion, resilience, and commitment to community. He is survived by his loving wife, three children, beloved grandchildren, and extended family who cherished his warmth and wisdom.

In 1967, my grandfather Ben Graham invited me on a cruise. When our ship docked at Odessa, he sent a postcard to Warren and Susie Buffett. Grandpa Ben would be surprised to learn that his postcard not only amazes me, but also gives us wisdom on how to value a child. If you’re fortunate enough to have a child in your life, I hope you’ll read the whole story.

I’d never envied my grandfather more than I did at the moment we walked through his palace doors. Liveried pages bowed to welcome us. I stood awed by the splendor of the sweeping staircase and crystal chandeliers, which cast shimmering lights on the black marble floor.

How extraordinary that, just when I’m ready to write about my Grandpa Ben, I find this photograph of him tucked in a box on my office shelf. I don’t remember seeing the photo before, but surely I must have when it arrived by airmail, almost fifty years ago. The...